You Can Win in Life: You are enough!

Have you ever dealt with self-doubt?  Do you feel like you are not enough somehow: not tall enough, not short enough, not skinny enough, not young enough, not old enough, not rich enough, not qualified enough…  There is a long and exhausting list of negative enforcements.  Unfortunately, self-doubt is common and it is what we pick up as a learned condition when we grow up.  It is from people around us making judgements on us.  It is from the society that is telling us how we must be, what we must want in order to consider to be beautiful, successful or happy.  Today social media is making it worse because many are not honest and it’s easy for us to compare ourself to others.

The problem with self-doubt is that it prevents you from going after opportunities out there that could be wonderful for us.  It prevents you from going after what we want, from making our dreams reality. 

Self-doubt can also make us want to try to be like someone else, pretend to be someone we are not in order to impress other people.  We try to be someone we think other people want or expect of us.  In doing so, we prevent others from seeing us for who we are.  We are so afraid that we may not live up to others’ attention but the reality is even if the person we thought of is not impressed with who we are, that there are so many people out there that will.  Even if we were able to cultivate a relationship with someone based on how we pretend, that relationship was not founded on honesty and authenticity.  The lack of honesty and authenticity stops you from having real connections with others.

So know that you are enough.  Know that you are enough, so you can be confident to be true to who you are.  So you can be confident to pursue opportunities out there to help us fulfil our dreams. Know that you are enough so you don’t have to pretend, so that you can be true to who we are.  The world need you, the true you.  Stay true so you can forge real relationship with others that is based on authenticity. 

You are enough!

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